and have told our very own
And of course, they're still cracking down hard on obscenities like this one:
If you're thinking 'oh, it's all right because they're only restricting default icons', or 'they're being reasonable by only restricting pictures with visible aereolas', I'd like to disagree. Many women are put off breastfeeding, or discouraged or embarrassed about doing it in public, because they believe that people will be offended. The position LJ has taken is one that only works if you believe that breastfeeding is a little bit dirty; all right in private, or under a blanket, but not where people might see.
But there is only one way to feed babies properly, and that's breastfeeding. Artificial feeding is a poor substitute. Poorer, younger women, and those with less education, are less likely to breastfeed, and if they start, they're more likely to stop quickly. And one reason for that is that they don't feed comfortable about breastfeeding; they don't see women around them doing it, and they don't see positive images of breastfeeding. Lawmakers are beginning to understand this; California, where Six Apart is located, has express legal provision exempting breastfeeding from obscenity legislation. The NHS explains "What we need is an environment where women of all ethnic, social and cultural backgrounds are comfortable with feeding their baby anywhere and at any time".
To make that vision a reality, we have to challenge those who attack it. It's no good to decide that this time it's trivial. Six Apart made a positive decision to go after a pile of entirely unobjectionable pictures of breastfeeding babies. I wouldn't have been remotely as angry if they'd always banned nipples and said 'sorry, breastfeeders, just bad luck'; though they'd still be wrong. But they specifically changed their TOS from 'sexual or graphically violent' icons in order to trap and remove breastfeeding icons. Six Apart think these icons are 'inappropriate', and they're wrong. I can't take my money away from them, because long ago I bought a permanent account. But I think I can help fight back.
Watch out for a new default icon soon (Edit: now with appropriate default icon: refresh if you aren't seeing the animation).
2006-06-01 09:43 am (UTC)
2006-06-01 09:46 am (UTC)
2006-06-01 09:50 am (UTC)
So, we can't make LJ change its policy, but we can persuade them.
2006-06-01 10:00 am (UTC)
2006-06-01 10:12 am (UTC)
2006-06-01 10:09 am (UTC)
2006-06-01 10:50 am (UTC)
"Your default userpic is viewable throughout the LiveJournal site, and unlike individual journal entries, it cannot be hidden or protected. It is potentially available to anyone on the Internet who randomly browses the site. Therefore, we require that your default userpic not contain anything too explicit. In particular, icons which contain nudity or graphic violence tend to be inappropriate for default userpics. Strong language on an otherwise appropriate userpic generally does not make the userpic unsuitable for a default userpic."
which is INCREDIBLY vague and lets them get away with stopping anything they don't like.
I now have a default icon that is a crop from this picture: http://www.tate.org.uk/servlet/View
2006-06-01 10:58 am (UTC)
So to stick fuck-cunt-wanker etc on a "nice" pick is not offensive and babies dinner time is. It's mad I tell you. Mad!
2006-06-01 11:02 am (UTC)
1. Nudity -- in some cultures a woman with bare arms is considered bad.
2. Strong Language -- there are words in Shakespeare we now laugh at that were shocking then. More recently 'Frankly My dear i Don't Give A damn' caused outrage in Gone with the wind.
2006-06-12 12:47 am (UTC)
o_O Does that mean this icon would be okay as a default, but a piece of art depicting the Madonna breastfeeding Christ is inappropriate?? WHAT?
2006-06-01 10:59 am (UTC)
As I've said before, I don't have any problem with the drawing of a line - it's where this line has been drawn that seems to me to be wrong. Hence my current default icon. This image could be shown, in considerably clearer detail, on pre-watershed television, or in a book, and no-one would feel the need to provide any warning that minors should not view it. Yet it unquestionably depicts nudity, and nude genitalia at that. I also note that an image search on Google under 'Madonna and Child', applying the strictest filtering controls, turns up on its first page this:
2006-06-01 11:14 am (UTC)
2006-06-01 02:28 pm (UTC)
2006-06-01 01:34 pm (UTC)
i have friends who simply were not able to breastfeed, and it sent them into spirals of serious depression -- no good for the baby, no good for them as moms. there has to be some wiggle room here.
2006-06-01 01:55 pm (UTC)
I wear glasses and have since I was 10. I like them and think they suit me. However, I don't deny it would have been better to have 20:20 vision, especially when walking into a pub on a cold night.
2006-06-01 04:06 pm (UTC)
I wholly agree with trying not to further depress women who've given it a good go and can't feed. They need to know that there are loads of ways they can give their child a good start in life; so breastfeeding isn't an option, but there's still lots of other ways to parent well. But pretending that artificial milks are as good as breast milk doesn't actually make it so.
Of course, the more parenting I do the more I become convinced that it's a sort of negative thing: your children will thrive as long as you hit a minimum standard. Beyond that, nothing you can do (nurse till they're four, flashcards, pony rides, hand-pureed organic vegetables, home schooling) will make much positive difference. Where the differences come are the negative ones; the kids whose home life doesn't come up to scratch in a whole host of different ways. It's those mums who really need the positive images of breastfeeding; because as well as being the best possible milk, it's also *cheaper* and *cleaner* and *easier* than bottlefeeding once you get it going.
Agreeing with sdn
2006-06-01 01:53 pm (UTC)
Re: Agreeing with sdn
2006-06-01 02:56 pm (UTC)
K.
2006-06-01 02:00 pm (UTC)
2006-06-01 02:31 pm (UTC)
I don't see that. They haven't said or implied anything is dirty. Because of the huge fuss made by that troll guy, they've had to clarify their position, and they've made it "No nudity". I can't help but think they're entitled to do that without going "Oh, except for the breast-feeders. Oh, and the classical paintings. Oh, and..."
Also, there are plenty of things that are all right in private but I wouldn't do where people can see, and I don't consider them dirty.
2006-06-01 04:43 pm (UTC)
They're not going for 'no nudity', incidentally. They're going for 'no human female nipples'. I've not seen a suggestion that
2006-06-01 02:59 pm (UTC)
K.
2006-06-01 04:51 pm (UTC)
I think personally that I am likely to cave before that point. But we will see.
2006-06-01 03:13 pm (UTC)
2006-06-01 05:02 pm (UTC)
2006-06-11 11:26 pm (UTC)
But SNATCH is ok right?! As long as the snatch in question is not doing something obscene like GIVING BIRTH....